oddspell:

Three of the people I follow who I intensely adore have received messages from slimy little anonymous creepers abusing them for not buying into “Grinto” now that they went to an event together.

How about no. No-one has ever been in denial, some people are just decent enough not to savagely gossip about the private lives of two people. There’s no denial about simply not wanting to speculate about something that someone may not want to share, and just because someone is relatively well known doesn’t mean that everything they do is public property.

So, pro-tip: Do you know whose business it is who someone sleeps with, dates, sees casually, marries or is friends with- the people who are sleeping together, dating, seeing casually, married, or friends. Not yours, not mine, and not any little snot nosed brat who treats real people like fictional characters.

Do you know what your concern should be if you like someone’s work, personality, humility, kindness or talent? Their happiness, not what they’re doing in their private life, who they’re doing, or what they had for breakfast, and if that person happens to share any of those things with the public, then that’s very nice to store away.

So, advice. Don’t be a creep, don’t be cruel, don’t be a jerk to people who aren’t stalkers just because you think it’s okay. Ask how you’d feel if someone was doing what you do to you. I sure wouldn’t appreciate it if someone hopped on tumblr and wrote porny stories about the person I went to lunch with today and I just because we went outside.

It’s hard for me to understand why people seem to find so difficult to get something so obvious.

And my position about this was always the same position that I have regard any other real life shipping. It’s on my freaking description. I despite RL shipping. In my opinion is borderline creepy how people invest time in something that is not their business.

I’m sorry if I’m not with the craziness and want to keep respectful to other people’s wishes.